What are common effects of loss?

 

Pushing away –

  • It’s common for kids to avoid things that remind them of the loss including:

o   Places

o   People

o   Memories

o   Pictures in your head.

Distraction –

  • Sometimes kids will spend a lot of time on screens, play video games or watch tv a lot to avoid thinking about the loss.

 

Doing less fun activities

  • Many kids do less things they used to enjoy, like playing with friends or sport.

 

Changes in eating and sleeping –

Sleep:

  • If you are having a lot of trouble with sleep (hard to go to sleep, sleeping a lot), think about the free Sleep Ninja app: Sleep Ninja® - Black Dog Institute | Better Mental Health

Eating:

  • It’s important to eat regular meals.

  • Sometimes kids eat too little, or eat a lot of snacks rather than meals.

  • Make sure you eat something every 4 hours during the day.

  • If you think you need more help with eating, see: Resources - Butterfly Foundation

 
 

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